Think of three people you like. Write their names down on a piece of paper. What is it about these people that make you like them? I’m guessing you’ll come up with a list of things like upbeat, fun, positive, successful, honest, confident, funny, attractive, thoughtful, and… they like YOU! It’s true – we tend to like people who like us.
It’s pretty logical that you like being around people who think that you’re a wonderful person. We all love to see people who put is in a good mood. We like the people who compliment us or go out of their way to include us or recognize us. So if we like it, doesn’t it stand to reason that they would like those qualities as well?
So, make the effort to truly become a person that other people like! It’s really just a choice!